Romance Advice - How to Get Your Man

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One of my favorite things about researching for How to Go Steady was reading other advice books from the 1960s and '70s. What I learned from exploring those other texts was that romance comics as a whole were leaps and bounds ahead of other sources of advice when it came to being easy going and suggesting readers be true to oneself. Interestingly enough, this (not so good) advice from other sources crept into the romance comics as you'll see in Girls' Romances #139 (March 1969). Even the romance comic characters weren't buying the advice! 

   Girls' Romances  #139 (March 1969) - Cover art by Dick Giordano (GCD). Interior art appears to be a combination of Ric Estrada, Jack Abel, and maybe even Win Mortimer.

Girls' Romances #139 (March 1969) - Cover art by Dick Giordano (GCD). Interior art appears to be a combination of Ric Estrada, Jack Abel, and maybe even Win Mortimer.

Eloise has been unlucky in love from the time she was fourteen years old when Jimmy broke things off with her for no apparent reason. It was then and there that Eloise lost her confidence. 

 How to get your man romance comic book dc comics girls' romances 139
 How to get your man romance comic book dc comics girls' romances 139

Eloise's lack of self-esteem around boys results in awkwardness and stilted conversation. Worse yet, her unease around dates doesn't yield a lot of second dates. 

 How to get your man romance comic book dc comics girls' romances 139

Fast forward five years and nineteen-year-old Eloise is still having trouble keeping her cool around boys. She clams up when they ask her questions and she doesn't come off like the person she knows she is. Eloise is grateful that she so far hasn't been in love with any of the guys she lost, but she fears that her pattern bodes ill for the future. Susan (Eloise's well-meaning friend) presents her with a book titled "How to Get Your Man." Eloise doesn't take Susan's gift too well and winds up chucking it in the trash.  

 how to get your man romance comic book

Later that day, Eloise sees that a new family is moving in next door to her family. Moving a piece of furniture is a young, very blond, and very cute young man. Stopped in her tracks, Eloise suddenly feels those "love at first sight" butterflies. Not wanting to lose the mysterious new neighbor should she get the opportunity to date him, Eloise desperately plucks the book out of the garbage.

Eloise reads the book with an open mind and decides to follow its advice to a T. And as you probably guessed... it's not very good advice! Nevertheless, Eloise feels emboldened by her newly acquired knowledge and decides to test it out on her latest crush - the cute blond next door. 

The two ride downtown together and eventually get lunch. As Eloise hangs on her date's every word, she puts what she learned in the book into practice. Her date is impressed that they have so much in common.   

 how to get your man romance comic book
 how to get your man romance comic book

Despite their promising beginning, Eloise doesn't see or hear from the young man for almost a week. Just as she begins to fear that she's lost him like so many others from her past (despite being equipped with the advice from "How to Get Your Man") she sees him drive past. The young man stares at her for a while and then walks up to Eloise's porch and declares that she is the loveliest girl he's ever seen in his life. Bewildered, Eloise asks him that if he feels that way, why didn't he call her? The young man declares that he just moved next door. Huh?! 

 how to get your man romance comic book

The two sit down on her porch and the yellow-haired hunk goes on to tell Eloise that he feels like he's fallen in love with her at first sight. Feeling like she's just purchased a one-way ticket to crazy town, Eloise starts to voice her confusion. Before she can wrap her head around what's going on, she realizes she has actually taken a trip to twinsville! The whole encounter makes her realize it was her all along that had the power to make a guy fall in love with her and not some bad advice in a silly book. Eloise retires the book to where it belongs!

 how to get your man romance comic book

This story does a good job of showing how advice books of the time preyed on fear and insecurities to sell their products. What do you think? Did the romance comics use the same fear-mongering present in other books?

To find out more info on what romance comics and other books of the time were telling young daters, read How to Go Steady